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March 24, 2015 by henrydampier 24 Comments

Why No One Wants To Be A Patriarch

Men crave power. How the laws and mores channel this impulse determines the shape of a given culture.

If you want men to join the legions, you make it so that the clearest path to power for a typical man will be to join up with the legions, serve his time, and then marry and be fruitful on his plot of land. If you want men to form households, you given them rights over those households and the families that issue from them.

Since the 1960s (and even before), the US has elected to instead channel male ambition into other areas. The state and its theorists achieved this by depriving fathers of patriarchal authority over their households. This was long-developing in both culture and law.

One of the key changes, heralded popularly by the advice of Dr. Spock (who was in turn heavily influenced by Freud), was the attribution of the physical disciplining of children and wives to the existence of all war and violence in society. This has also been echoed by the Swiss psychoanalyst, Alice Miller, who argued that the physical discipline regime prevalent in German-speaking countries directly lead to the rise of the Nazis and World War II.

Previous to this era, it was a common bourgeois saying in the US that ‘a man’s home is his castle.’ While this didn’t mean that the man was necessarily a sovereign on the level of a head of state, he was at least expected to maintain order within his household, and to discipline his children.

Men lost the right to use legal force against their wives and children in stages. In the early 19th century, laws against wife battery made it into law in the US and the UK. These regulations were further tightened, and have continued to be tightened, up until and including the Violence Against Women Act.

When most modern, educated, well-bred people tend to think of this trend, they tend to feel good about it. It seems entirely reasonable. After all, only low-class people beat their wives and children.

From another perspective, we might see that the disciplining doesn’t really go away from society. The switch is just passed on from the father to the policeman and the schoolmaster. The state’s hirelings retain the right to discipline children, although wives tend to be permitted to run wild, especially nowadays, restrained only by their desires and sense of self-interest.

The disciplining also changes from spanking to drugging, often heavy drugging of untested chemicals onto children. This sometimes includes powerful anti-psychotics, anti-depressants, and various amphetamines. The side effects, not to mention the primary effects, can be quite severe — much more so than sore asscheeks.

Anyway, the reason why no one wants to be a patriarch today is that patriarchs have no more legal authority. They have no formal power over their wives or children. They only have influence. Influence is both fickle and distinct from power. When a child misbehaves in the modern world, there are only a few paths that a parent can take. They can verbally discipline the child (more likely to work in a higher-class household than a lower-class one), they can illegally or semi-legally beat them, they can take them to a psychiatric professional of some kind, or they can feed the kid to the justice system. Schools have their own corrections systems of varying levels of effectiveness.

Further, paternal heads of household can be deprived of their assets and children at any time at the arbitrary whim of their wives. The wife can commit adultery, and the man can still lose his property in the ensuing divorce. The children and the wife alike can be wildly disrespectful to the head of household, and the man has no recourse other than whining.

Naturally, this position holds little appeal to anyone sane. To the extent that a family attempts to hold the old form is the extent to which it’s in rebellion against the law and the dominant culture.

Returning to the beginning of this post, if we hold that men crave power, and if the role of patriarch no longer confers power, but instead vulnerability, we should assume that the male will to power will instead be redirected into other pursuits in which it’s still recognized.

Given that the basic attainment of family authority is out of reach for just about all men, we instead see more redirected energy outside the family, into corporations, the state bureaucracy, athletics, and various status competitions.

Men who aren’t very good at real competitions instead move into fake ones, to get the vicarious sense of power — video games, fantasy football, club sports, internet debating, science, blogging, forum-posting, and other safe outlets for power-jockeying unlikely to bring down too many consequences from anyone with power.

If you give men even a sliver of power, most become contented with that. When you deny them much of any power, the functional ones will set their ambition-engines running, but they will divert themselves away from family, because it confers no authority, while it once did.

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March 15, 2015 by henrydampier 9 Comments

Trust in the Written Word

Writing is not intrinsically true. When people stop believing in what’s written, it has a profound effect on their behavior. For example, the writing on a toothpaste package is supposed to be certified as accurate, the ingredients are supposed to be as they say they are, and the product quality is supposed to be certified by a couple different Federal agencies.

When people stop believing in the authorities underwriting the accuracy of all those written reports, they start to behave erratically, distrusting official sources of information and looking for alternatives. In this way, people tired of popping prescription pills take supplements instead. Or, unhappy with a psychiatrist’s explanation of their son’s diagnosis, they start joining mobs which forsake the use of vaccines, which was a profound medical innovation.

This distrust in authority has a cumulative effect. Much of ‘serious journalism’ exists to shore up the credibility of the rest of the institutions of society. This is why journalists are supposed to be neutral, and are portrayed as such, even when they tend to act as agents of the state in practice. When the government makes a mistake, professionals are supposed to bring it to public awareness, and then the legitimate authorities are supposed to rectify the wrong.

Video, the spoken word, and photos have an inherent credibility over words, just because they seem more real — but owing to how much production effort goes into them, they’re often more artificial in reality.

When people believe in authority, they believe things like advertisements more readily, which reduces the cost and wastage that goes into convincing people to buy this or that. If they believe the ad’s trumpeting of its seal of quality the first time, the inventory at the washing-machine-warehouse will sell out faster, and the ad won’t have to be run so much.

But because of depleted social trust, when people see that washing machine ad, they may think that the seal of quality is a sham and that the brand is trying to screw them over. And they may very well be correct — retailers like Sears have hollowed out their reputations, and product quality for many basic machines (especially dishwashers) has declined as time has gone on. Shoddy manufacturing gets passed off as improved technology with added features which are also useless.

Journalism works as a business when the publication prints accurate information and polices everything printed in it. When people trust the information channel, they trust the advertisements also. If they don’t trust the channel, they don’t trust the ads either, and those ads lose persuasive impact, as do the articles themselves.

Lies crowd out truth in the same way that bad money chases out good (the latter being phrased as Gresham’s Law). It’s now nearly universally acknowledged that the second Iraq war was promoted on mostly false pretenses, and that it has resulted in a still-unfolding catastrophe for all the powers and peoples in the region. But these sorts of big deceptions have knock-on effects throughout society which impact completely unrelated areas.

If the highest authority lies about issues related to war and peace routinely, why should anyone trust the AMA or the FDA? Even when either institution speaks the truth, people don’t know whether or not to trust them.

Cynics might say that running a government oriented towards truth is overly idealistic, and that politicians must use lies in the same way that carpenters use nails. The reason why the cynics are wrong is that societies that trust one another, and reward one another for that trust, succeed in ways that more paranoid ones don’t. It confers a major competitive advantage in warfare and trade.

When people adopt a protective cynicism, it prevents them from incurring losses, but they become walled off from one another and from productive society. Simply telling people who are cynical that they should be more trusting isn’t going to work, because they’re protecting themselves from real dangers. They distrust because they’ve been burned before. The trust can’t be legislated, either, because trust can only be maintained when the majority of a given society share the same sort of moral outlook, and feel safe within it.

While people are more apt to disbelieve much of what’s said by the official sources, they still need to signal their moral affiliation to the people around them, to show that they’re in communion with the leading class. People who refuse to do this will tend to find themselves marginalized by the crowd, even when the crowd has gone mad, as crowds usually do.

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March 13, 2015 by henrydampier 6 Comments

Exclusivity

Since the convulsions of the Civil Rights era, it has become almost impossible to argue for freedom of association and exclusion in the United States. Great efforts are undertaken to teach children and train adults into believing that inclusion is good, and exclusivity is bad.

So, for example, it is considered wicked to exclude various types of people which are both real and invented from any organization, whether it happens to be formal or informal. Where soft segregation appears, un-appointed commissars are encouraged to break that up, whether or not there’s anything legally actionable in what’s being done.

It has also happened that people comfortable arguing for the principle of free association tend to become profoundly uncomfortable with any application of that principle. Most of the people who might say that freedom of association is good would not defend the right of a church to exclude sodomites from the congregation or the priesthood.

Proclaiming a belief in a principle but then refusing to defend the consistent application of that principle undermines the prior statement. A political candidate who dares to defend freedom of association in principle must respond to any criticism of his position by condemning exclusion in practice.

To defend the right of the Irish Catholic bar owner to tell a Black patron to “Pike off, nigger” is to also defend the right of the Black barber to tell a White kid to “Get the fuck out of here, cracker.” In today’s crocodile-calculus, the latter statement would be an oppressor getting his comeuppance, but the former would be grounds to seize that bar owner’s business and throw him into penury. Theoretically, the paleface could sue the barber. In practice, any lawyer who took that case would have to be a crackpot.

Trotsky would call them both ‘racists.’ I would say that they are both within their proper rights, and that such exclusion is crucial to the maintenance of any real community of quality.

In both law and practice, the principle of forced-open-entry tends to be inconsistently applied. In most universities, there are Black, Asian, or Latino student unions, but any attempt to create ‘White Student Unions’ attracts scandal. While there might be a few ‘French’ or ‘German’ cultural houses here or there in older universities, those also tend to demand inclusion for all groups. We abound in women’s groups, but any attempt to build such groups for men — even within a leftist identity politics framework — is met with defamatory magazine and newspaper articles along with legal pressure besides.

The press portrays moderate leftists like Paul Elam as if they were proto-Hitlers, merely for attempting to represent the interests of the hated oppressor-class.

This state of affairs permits some groups to be discriminatory and crudely insulting. Others are forbidden from expressing even mild disrespect for the protected groups. To remain in polite society, we must pretend not to notice this. Since society is becoming not-society and the politeness is becoming a worthless pretense, it’s time to toss the lies in the rubbish and discuss things as they are.

To exclude is to say that you prefer one group to other groups. It is to say that a group membership matters to you, that you value the group, that you will defend the interests of the group. Forced inclusion disrupts the number of private spaces available to individuals for most races, classes, and creeds — but it tends to be applied against certain groups more than others. When, here and there, an individual notices the arbitrary nature in which these rules come to be applied, the herd swarms to decry him as an evil person.

In the same way as marrying a woman is to say that you prefer this lady above the others — to grant her that privilege — an expression of preference necessarily ranks some over others.

Whenever disparate impact appears within a group, it takes on the frisson of a criminal gang, because what’s being done is against the spirit of an unenforceable set of tyrannical laws.

The hope behind the inclusive, open society was that it would make human equality real. That goal was never achievable in the abstract, and in the particular, it has resulted in unhappiness, ugliness, conflict, crime, confusion, and aimless solitude.

Without exclusion, there can be little inclusion or intimacy, either. A space for privacy and for secrets makes it possible to protect a given spot of land, an idea, a company, a family, a club, or a temple.

‘Civil rights’ and the concomitant global-multicultural-infinite-immigration policy  has, rather than make cooperation possible, depleted civil society, annihilated private institutions at all levels, weakened the practice of faith, and has instead funneled people into communicating by computer to be surveilled by the state and its favored commercial interests. Where there is no privacy, there can be no ‘private property,’ either.

Because moderates on this topic tend to be punished at incredible levels, people who disagree even mildly will tend to find themselves pushed to extremes, because it is the fastest way for them to find allies to coordinate with. Forcing groups together also forces them into conflict where they might have avoided one another otherwise, through prudent separation.

If the man whose daughter has been turned out and sold by Pakistani slavers can only find an understanding friend in the man with the swastika tattoo, those fellows will become fast friends, and the legitimacy of the state will be undermined, potentially fatally so given enough time and insults to the honor of the little people.

The average Englishman has no opinion about gypsies until you force 50,000 of them to live in his neighborhood at public expense. After that, it should be no surprise if he becomes a world-class gypsy loather. In the mental framework of the Western elite, our gypsy-hating fellow is evil, even though his antipathy would never have been aroused if some bureaucrat hadn’t gotten it into his head that it would be a bright idea to import 50,000 gypsies and dump them into the man’s neighborhood.

Since it becomes forbidden to speak about these topics in any way, anyone who does permit discussion of that topic — usually those unconcerned about elite opinion — will wind up attracting the mass of dissatisfaction. While pseudo-elites of democracies sneer at this ‘rise of extremism,’ this rise only derives from the misgovernment practiced by those same pseudo-elites, the same refusal to address their constituents in a forthright way, to listen to their complaints, and to take appropriate action.

The leaders in the Western democracies think that if they are aggressive enough in hunting down those who dare to discriminate, they will bring about the magic happy world in their television shows, movies, and advertisements. The more aggressive they are in removing unprincipled exceptions, the more bitter the opposition that they will excite,and the more that they will destabilize their own state.

The window of opportunity in which political compromise might have been possible shrinks by another few inches for every reckless & destructive action.

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